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October 15, 2012

IconWhy homophobic pressure group One Million Moms hates Jennifer Lopez (and why you should love her)

Jennifer LopezWith her upcoming show The Fosters, Jennifer López is reaffirming the definition of family as inclusive of same-gender parents, biological and non-biological children, and multiple ethnicities. Unsurprisingly, anti-gay groups in the USA are panicking.

The ABC Family show will tell the story of a lesbian couple and their multi-ethnic children, some of whom are biological and others not. Teri Polo and Sherri Saum will star as the lesbian moms. David Lambert was cast as their son Brandon, and Maia Mitchell will play the foster child who brings her very real troubles into this new home. Lopez will produce and guest star the series.

It will be months before the show airs in the U.S., and the pilot is still in the works. But this has not stopped the hate group One Million Moms from protesting it. In their words:

“This program is attempting to redefine marriage and family by having two moms raise these children together.”

Not a minute too soon, is what I say. To them, there are right and wrong ways for children to be born:

“One Million Moms is not sure how the explanation will be given on how the biological children were conceived.”

What ‘explanation’ would be appropriate, OMM? Immaculate conception? Or the Stork flew the kids over on her beak?

As for OMM’s final judgment on The Fosters:

“While foster care and adoption is a wonderful thing and the Bible does teach us to help orphans, … none of this material is acceptable content for a family show.”

Of course it is the Bible that gives OMM authority to decide what kinds of families are acceptable and which are not. The Bible also says owning people and making them work against their will and for no pay is fine; your parents get to stone you if you disobey; and watch out, eating an oyster is an abomination.

The One Million Moms that never were

You might remember One Million Moms as the group that protested Ellen Degeneres’s spokesperson contract with the American retailer JC Penney earlier this year.

Ellen responded by clarifying what to her are traditional values: “I stand for honesty, equality, kindness, compassion, treating people the way you want to be treated and helping those in need. To me, those are traditional values.”

Rightfully JC Penney stuck it out with her, and, needless to say, public opinion swelled in Ellen’s support. Thousands bombarded OMM’s Facebook account (which never approached anything close to one million “friends”) with posts criticizing the group and supporting Ellen.

So much so that OMM ended up pulling its rant, and eventually shut down the entire account. Nowadays, if you search “One Million Moms” on Facebook you will find:

As OMM’s new bullying target, Jennifer López has a lot to win for same sex couples’ rights. Firstly, the fiasco becomes an opportunity for readers to show their support. Browse some of the outlets carrying this news and you’ll see that the comments on the bottom of the page overwhelmingly support López and ridicule OMM.

What does this mean? It means, happily, that the days in which a bunch of bigots controlled the media are waning. And that is in part thanks to celebrities coming out as gay like Ricky Martin, or allies like López who promote the radical idea that people have a right to love whomever they chose.

Gone are the Latino stereotype Ricky Ricardo’s days

Far from the staunch conservatism some might associate them with, many Latino celebrities are standing for an inclusive society.

Don’t get me wrong — I love I Love Lucy. She married a Latino during the Cold war. The show poked fun at Ricky’s bad English in an endearing way. He represented Latinos not as murderous, self-destructive gangsters a la West Side Story, but as hard-working family people.

Decades later. Latinos lead again in changing our perception of what is right and what is normal in society. Ricky Martin’s coming out in 2010 was one such moment. Now we have Jennifer López and The Fosters. I can’t wait to see the show.

Gracias, Jennifer. Don’t back down now!

6 Responses to Why homophobic pressure group One Million Moms hates Jennifer Lopez (and why you should love her)

  1. Hilary says:

    Brilliant article Renata! One Million Moms sounds terrifying, like a sort of evil, robotic, gay-bashing version of Mumsnet.

    Actually- maybe we could set Mumsnet on them?

  2. Renata Costa Renata Costa says:

    Thanks, Hilary! Yes, those One Million Moms (minus some 930,000 other moms who never joined them) are dreadful. Don’t know Mumsnet, but it would be fun to watch them interact!

  3. AOG says:

    Congratulations on your new gig!

    I really liked your post. One Million Moms is such a sad thing, but unfortunately it is the kind of thing Christian groups in the US (and elsewhere) have us accostumed to.

    I’m so glad I live a religion-free life these days.

    I’ll be reading you!

    Tony

  4. Renata Costa Renata Costa says:

    Thanks, Tony, for reading and commenting! I agree with you about the religion-free life. After growing up Catholic in a very conservative country, my non-religious life has been a breath of fresh air.
    Be well!

    • Patti Greene says:

      I loved this, Renata! It’s always wonderful to read how closed-minded people, who think they speak for everyone, fall flat on their faces! Kudos to Jennifer, and to you, for this interesting piece!

  5. Excellent, Renata! I despise the way groups like this present such an incomplete picture of what Christianity is. Readers, NOT ALL CHRISTIANS ARE LIKE THIS. Episcopalians are not like this. LGBT + Christian = Possible!!

    Ciao,
    Jett

Renata Costa

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